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Tuesday, March 31, 2009
THE APRIL EDITION
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EDITOR'S THOUGHTS
Aw-w-w-w-w, April is here. It’s the beginning of spring, “real” sunshine, and warm, sultry weather. Spring represents growth, spanking new life, and fresh beginnings. Everyone deserves a second chance and a brand new start, not to mention the fabulous fashion this season! "Daisy dukes," tank tops, and flip-flops are all re-emerging from the depths of your forgotten closet spaces. Huge sunglasses, bright eye shadows, and big duffel bags are making serious comebacks, too.
As Easter approaches, we all recognize the importance of sacrifice in order to reach certain goals. Every girl I know is “getting back into shape” in preparation for her perfect beach pose. I too, have ambitions of fitting back into my $200- Agua Bendita (Agua de Arcoiris -Rainbow) swimsuit (pictured below, for your pleasure).
I’m equally excited about "springing forward" into new territory and expanding my portfolio of writing to several printed and online magazines. The chemistry degree has been a huge help in expanding my technical knowledge of cosmetics and beauty products, but I’m beyond ready to start the next chapter in my learning career. Lord knows it has been my dream, since high school, to attend a prestigious design program! I am proud to say that it will finally happen this summer. Yea!!!! Hip – hip- hooray!
Snoop's on Martha Stewart!
Ebony Needs Change, .....but I wonder if they can afford any New Freelancers....
(photo courtesy of Ebony mag)
Tami tells it best:
(article courtesy of http://whattamisaid.blogspot.com/2009/03/should-black-folks-save-ebony-and-jet.html )
We have recently been informed that the Johnson Publishing Company is currently going through a financial crisis. The company is attempting a reorganization in order to survive. Many people have already lost their jobs with a company that has employed thousands of black Americans during the course of its existence.In order to support this effort to save our magazine, my friends and myself have pledged to get a subscription to both Ebony and Jet magazine, starting with one year. We are urging every other club member who comes across this plea to do the same. Please post, repost, and post again, to any blog that you may own or support.
Please email this to every person that you know, regardless of their background. Let them know that Ebony and Jet magazines have been part of the black American culture for three quarters of a century, and that there is a lot that they can learn about black American culture from reading them.We are currently discussing the idea of throwing an Ebony/Jet Party, where people can eat, drink, and sign up for their subscription on the spot. Please spread this idea around to all that you know. Your Sororities, Fraternities, Lodges, VFW Posts, Churches, Civic Groups, Block Clubs, Caps Meetings, Book Clubs, etc.It would be a crying shame, to lose our historic magazine, during the same year of such an historic event as the election of our first black President of the United States.
Tammi's Response :
Today, Ebony enjoys a circulation of more than 1.4 million, while Jet reaches nearly 1 million people each week. But I suspect neither magazine is as ubiquitous in the homes of my generation of black folks (GenX) as they were for my parents and grandparents. The truth is, like many Civil Rights-era institutions, both publications began feeling irrelevant a long time ago. Yes, black people still need someplace to see their lives and culture reflected and to read news important to them. (Today's media is much better in covering people of color, but far from perfect.) But are Ebony and Jet the go-to places for that anymore? No, because while black America has changed over the last 60-some years, these publications have seemed largely the same--like museum pieces. I think of them fondly (like my grandparents' old recliner in the back room), but emphatically not as publications-of-record.
An example of Johnson Publishing's out-of-touchness? Sunday at the neighborhood Wal-Mart, I picked up a Jet for the first time in forever, in preparation for this post. I wanted to know if it was still there. In an age when black women are fighting stereotyped images of ourselves as Jezebels, playthings and acoutrement for the latest hip hop star whose cuts are banging in the whips of white, teenage suburbanites--it couldn't still be there. But, yeah, centerspread, there it was--that paean to black woman thickitude--the Jet Beauty of the Week, a young, black woman in a teeny swimsuit giving sexy face. Is this what I'm supposed to rush to the battlements to save?
The forefront of the black communications revolution is now on the Web, where brothers and sisters are breaking news (Jena 6), championing causes and serving up provocative opinions. Ebony and Jet, I think, have failed to keep pace with a world where there is
Ta-Nehisi Coates and What About Our Daughters and Racialicious and Aunt Jemima's Revenge and Womanist Musings and TransGriot and Something Within and Color of Change and Pam's House Blend and The Root and Black and Married with Kids, and, hell, Bossip. Today, black readers can get superior writing about politics, black life, marriage, parenting, sexuality, pop culture, identity, racism, sexism, spirituality, finance and a host of other issues, for free, everyday, all day, online. The topics covered (or not covered) by Ebony and Jet, the lack of depth in writing, the formats, the frickin beauty of the week, make these publications seem frozen in time, while the world speeds up around them.
Beyond all that, how is Johnson Publishing going to adjust to the new digital age? It's not the only print purveyor facing this question. Local newspapers across the country need to answer it too. America has changed the way it consumes information, and so far, print media hasn't found a profitable way to adapt. That's a shame, because we desperately need the Fourth Estate. We need in-depth reporting. Marginalized folks need these things more than most. God knows that black folks could use the shot to our collective self-esteem that Johnson Publishing's products offer. But taking extraordinary life-saving measures to rescue publications like Ebony and Jet is merely stalling the inevitable unless ailing publications put strategic plans in place to innovate and evolve.
Look, the older I get the more pieces of my past mean to me. (That's probably why I spent the weekend watching old episodes of "Columbo," "Quincy" and "MacMillan and Wife" on Netflix.) But nostalgia isn't enough reason for me to join the charge to save Ebony and Jet. All the Ebony/Jet parties in the world won't make a difference if these black cultural icons aren't making the changes necessary to save themselves.
(image courtesy of http://julialapin.typepad.com/bunnybisous/your_bunny_friend/)
EDITOR'S THOUGHTS
Aw-w-w-w-w, April is here. It’s the beginning of spring, “real” sunshine, and warm, sultry weather. Spring represents growth, spanking new life, and fresh beginnings. Everyone deserves a second chance and a brand new start, not to mention the fabulous fashion this season! "Daisy dukes," tank tops, and flip-flops are all re-emerging from the depths of your forgotten closet spaces. Huge sunglasses, bright eye shadows, and big duffel bags are making serious comebacks, too.
As Easter approaches, we all recognize the importance of sacrifice in order to reach certain goals. Every girl I know is “getting back into shape” in preparation for her perfect beach pose. I too, have ambitions of fitting back into my $200- Agua Bendita (Agua de Arcoiris -Rainbow) swimsuit (pictured below, for your pleasure).
I’m equally excited about "springing forward" into new territory and expanding my portfolio of writing to several printed and online magazines. The chemistry degree has been a huge help in expanding my technical knowledge of cosmetics and beauty products, but I’m beyond ready to start the next chapter in my learning career. Lord knows it has been my dream, since high school, to attend a prestigious design program! I am proud to say that it will finally happen this summer. Yea!!!! Hip – hip- hooray!
Snoop's on Martha Stewart!
Ebony Needs Change, .....but I wonder if they can afford any New Freelancers....
(photo courtesy of Ebony mag)
Tami tells it best:
(article courtesy of http://whattamisaid.blogspot.com/2009/03/should-black-folks-save-ebony-and-jet.html )
The Case:
We have recently been informed that the Johnson Publishing Company is currently going through a financial crisis. The company is attempting a reorganization in order to survive. Many people have already lost their jobs with a company that has employed thousands of black Americans during the course of its existence.In order to support this effort to save our magazine, my friends and myself have pledged to get a subscription to both Ebony and Jet magazine, starting with one year. We are urging every other club member who comes across this plea to do the same. Please post, repost, and post again, to any blog that you may own or support.
Please email this to every person that you know, regardless of their background. Let them know that Ebony and Jet magazines have been part of the black American culture for three quarters of a century, and that there is a lot that they can learn about black American culture from reading them.We are currently discussing the idea of throwing an Ebony/Jet Party, where people can eat, drink, and sign up for their subscription on the spot. Please spread this idea around to all that you know. Your Sororities, Fraternities, Lodges, VFW Posts, Churches, Civic Groups, Block Clubs, Caps Meetings, Book Clubs, etc.It would be a crying shame, to lose our historic magazine, during the same year of such an historic event as the election of our first black President of the United States.
Tammi's Response :
Today, Ebony enjoys a circulation of more than 1.4 million, while Jet reaches nearly 1 million people each week. But I suspect neither magazine is as ubiquitous in the homes of my generation of black folks (GenX) as they were for my parents and grandparents. The truth is, like many Civil Rights-era institutions, both publications began feeling irrelevant a long time ago. Yes, black people still need someplace to see their lives and culture reflected and to read news important to them. (Today's media is much better in covering people of color, but far from perfect.) But are Ebony and Jet the go-to places for that anymore? No, because while black America has changed over the last 60-some years, these publications have seemed largely the same--like museum pieces. I think of them fondly (like my grandparents' old recliner in the back room), but emphatically not as publications-of-record.
An example of Johnson Publishing's out-of-touchness? Sunday at the neighborhood Wal-Mart, I picked up a Jet for the first time in forever, in preparation for this post. I wanted to know if it was still there. In an age when black women are fighting stereotyped images of ourselves as Jezebels, playthings and acoutrement for the latest hip hop star whose cuts are banging in the whips of white, teenage suburbanites--it couldn't still be there. But, yeah, centerspread, there it was--that paean to black woman thickitude--the Jet Beauty of the Week, a young, black woman in a teeny swimsuit giving sexy face. Is this what I'm supposed to rush to the battlements to save?
The forefront of the black communications revolution is now on the Web, where brothers and sisters are breaking news (Jena 6), championing causes and serving up provocative opinions. Ebony and Jet, I think, have failed to keep pace with a world where there is
Ta-Nehisi Coates and What About Our Daughters and Racialicious and Aunt Jemima's Revenge and Womanist Musings and TransGriot and Something Within and Color of Change and Pam's House Blend and The Root and Black and Married with Kids, and, hell, Bossip. Today, black readers can get superior writing about politics, black life, marriage, parenting, sexuality, pop culture, identity, racism, sexism, spirituality, finance and a host of other issues, for free, everyday, all day, online. The topics covered (or not covered) by Ebony and Jet, the lack of depth in writing, the formats, the frickin beauty of the week, make these publications seem frozen in time, while the world speeds up around them.
Beyond all that, how is Johnson Publishing going to adjust to the new digital age? It's not the only print purveyor facing this question. Local newspapers across the country need to answer it too. America has changed the way it consumes information, and so far, print media hasn't found a profitable way to adapt. That's a shame, because we desperately need the Fourth Estate. We need in-depth reporting. Marginalized folks need these things more than most. God knows that black folks could use the shot to our collective self-esteem that Johnson Publishing's products offer. But taking extraordinary life-saving measures to rescue publications like Ebony and Jet is merely stalling the inevitable unless ailing publications put strategic plans in place to innovate and evolve.
Look, the older I get the more pieces of my past mean to me. (That's probably why I spent the weekend watching old episodes of "Columbo," "Quincy" and "MacMillan and Wife" on Netflix.) But nostalgia isn't enough reason for me to join the charge to save Ebony and Jet. All the Ebony/Jet parties in the world won't make a difference if these black cultural icons aren't making the changes necessary to save themselves.
SPRING BEAUTY PRESCRIPTION - APRIL EDITION
Bronze Beauty
Contrary to belief, bronzers are not just for the pigment-challenged ladies anymore. These products can easily create an even skin tone and a sun-kissed, “summery” appearance for everyone. Through matte or shimmering hues of gold and red, you can grab a look of warmth and a “back-from the beach” glow in mere minutes.
Determine your Skin Type
It is important to choose a bronzer type that is right for you. Most come in the form of blush – powders, beads, creams, liquids, or lotion consistencies.
Cream-bases bring high-impact color and pigment to darker skin tones, but break down easily in oily skin types. Liquids would work best in this case. Try Prestige Summer Brilliance Luminous Liquid Bronzer with Moisturizing Orchid Flower Extract ($8, fine department stores). Mixing a powder -bronzer into your liquid foundation is another easy solution to enhancing the appearance of your natural skin hue, without looking as if you are wearing any makeup at all.
For bringing a natural glow to the dry – normal skin range, try a bronzing moisturizer or lotion, such as Neutrogena Summer Glow Daily Moisturizer ($ 8, drugstores), or Clarins Self Tanning Instant Gel ($32, fine department stores).
Finding your Shade
The first thing to remember is to pick a bronzer that is right for your skin tone. Bronzers generally come in shades of light, medium, dark, or deep. To look sun-kissed, without appearing overly tanned, can become quite challenging. All bronzers have a true brown undertone. It can give a bruised or dirty appearance, if the wrong shade is chosen, especially if it is too dark. Seek a bronzer that is one to two shades darker than your natural skin tone. Try Mac Bronzering Powder ($18, fine department stores) in golden, bronze, or beyond-bronze shades, or I-Iman Bronzer ($27, drug stores) in the shades bronzer #1 or bronzer #2.
Application
The key to natural, believable bronzer is all in the application. Apply to three main areas of your face: cheeks, forehead and chin. Make sure to blend well, and disperse evenly with a big, blush brush. It is best to start off with a light application, as you slowly decide what looks best on your skin tone. You can always add more later, if desired, but a small amount can go a long way!
Using your bronzer as a blush can be easy, too. Compliment your cheeks by keeping your remaining makeup at a minimum, with simplistic, sheer lips and warm eyes. (Image from www.beauty-and-makeup-tips.com )
(picture courtesy of Temptalia.com)
MAC'S Sugarsweet Collection:
Lipstick-
Sweet Thing Mid-tone magenta with multi dimensional pearl (Lustre)
Bubbles Sheer frosty white beige (Glaze) (Repromote)
Touch Peachy cinnamon (Lustre) (Permanent)
Lollipop Loving Mid-tone coral with subtle green and gold iridescence (Glaze) (Repromote)
Saint Germain Pastel pink (Amplified Creme) (Repromote)
Sweet Thing Mid-tone magenta with multi dimensional pearl (Lustre)
Bubbles Sheer frosty white beige (Glaze) (Repromote)
Touch Peachy cinnamon (Lustre) (Permanent)
Lollipop Loving Mid-tone coral with subtle green and gold iridescence (Glaze) (Repromote)
Saint Germain Pastel pink (Amplified Creme) (Repromote)
Tricolour Lipglass-
Tasty Top Sheer blue pink with reflects, Middle Mid-tone blue pink with duochrome pearlized pigments, Bottom Dark creamy red pink
Just Dessert Top Sheer yellow pink with reflects, Middle Mid-tone yellow pink with duochrome pearlized pigments, Bottom Mid-tone creamy yellow pink
Simpy Delicious Top Sheer peach with reflects, Middle Pale coral with duochrome pearlized pigments, Bottom Creamy mid-tone coral
Triple-Yum Top Sheer gold with gold reflects, Middle True gold with duochrome pearlized pigments, Bottom Mid-tone bronze
Consume Me Top Sheer white with reflects, Middle Pale mint with duochrome pearlized pigments, Bottom Creamy light peach with pearlized pigments
Eyeshadow-Sugarshot Pale frosty beige (Lustre)
Dear Cupcake Mid-tone pink coral with gold pearlized pigments (Satin)
Aquavert Soft mint with white pearlized pigments (Veluxe Pearl) (Repromote)
Stars n Rockets Lavender with red/pink reflects (Veluxe Pearl) (Permanent)
Club Muted reddish brown duochrome with green opalescent shimmer (Satin) (Permanent)
Shadestick-
Cakeshop Frosted light neutral beige
Butternutty Frosted pale white gold
Lemon Chiffon Frosted pewter
Red Velvet Frosted mid-tone pink
Penny Light pinky copper (Repromote)
Mascara-
Zoomlash
Nail Lacquer
Peppermint Patti Creamy mint green (Cream)
Seasonal Peach Creamy pale peachy pink (Cream)
Mineralize Skinfinish
Perfect Topping Pink/peach/lavender melange
Refined Tan/peach/coral melange
Lash-
34 Lash
SPRING RUSH - APRIL EDITION
12 Questions Answered on Black Greek Life at HBCUS,
From 3 Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity members, and 1 AKA
The Good , The Bad, and The Ooglee-e-e -
Answers that we all want to know!
Vernon, Alpha Phi Alpha fraternity member #1 :
1. What made you decide to join a fraternity?
2. How did you decide to become a member of APA (Alpha Phi Alpha)?
Aligning myself up with like-minded successful people.. Alpha has a history bigger than you think from MLK, Duke Ellington, Lynel Richie, Jesse Owens, Thurgood Marshall, etc... But it was the movers and shakers on my first campus at Xavier where I was turned onto the light! There the president, the dean, the SGA, everyone doing things were Alphas.. I expect to do things and I thought this should be great networking and being amongst similar magnets of influence!I came through the "GQ" ZM Chapter of GA State! It's not just a fashion.. It's a lifestyle!
3. What are some of the requirements of membership?
Requirements are having a good positive mentality, at solid GPA at least like a 3.2 or 3.3 somewhere in there.. but we expect higher!!
4. Do you have any regrets, regarding your membership or pledging process?
No regrets.. God lead my feet to places I go with a security in mind of the visions I've seen for myself! No fear! I just got to get it!
5. What is hazing, and did you ever feel that you were a victim or participant of the act? Please provide examples.
Hazing?? I beg your pardon! Alpha?? No!! No tolerance policy here ma’am..should I get beat to call someone a brother??
6. What are the good aspects of pledging APA? Specific examples?
Alpha Phi Alpha is an Incorporation! We run a business and have business meetings and we are proficient and teaches us life skills to running an organization effectively. You see the things we produce.. We expect only the best! It should show in your work! Character is what we look for.Some people pledge for the wrong reason and it will be obvious they will only make work harder on themselves.
7. What are the bad aspects of pledging APA? Specific examples?
8. How you ever thought of resigning as a member?
9. Have you ever felt that you were pushed too far, in your pledging process?
I have no regrets about pledging. So I don't see bad aspects. But, some people like anyone have egos and you have to deal with them from time to time but if they joined for the right reasons then that should not be a issue.
10. Are you still an active member, after graduating from college? What are the differences between pledging during undergraduate studies, and graduate studies? If you could turn back time, would you pledge all over again?
Once you an Alpha you always an Alpha!!Active yes! paid member, no! Money is the key!I didn't come through grad chapter so I really don't know what they do!But they want money! I don't need to give money to an organization to be a servant to my people. I don't need to be frat to do that either! I joined because I like to be in good company! you can meet someone from a totally different area and you can befriend a brother instantly! It's an awesome organization! sometimes I wish the egos didn't get in the way of people working better together! but hey that's everywhere.hope I've been a help to you!!
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Sean , Alpha Phi Alpha fraternity member #2 :
1. What made you decide to join a fraternity?
I wanted to be apart of an elite brotherhood; where their likes, ideals, goals, and ambitions mirrored my own.
2. How did you decide to become a member of APA (Alpha Phi Alpha)?
I spoke to respective members of the chapter about my interest.
3. What are some of the requirements of membership?
3.0 gpa, good academic standing, 2 letters of recommendation [from brothers in the chapter], and completion of the members intake process.
4. Do you have any regrets, regarding your membership or pledging process?
NOOOOPE. :]
5. What is hazing, and did you ever feel that you were a victim or participant of the act? Please provide examples.
Hazing is when a person embarrasses, harasses, or injures another through the plight of a personal ambition. Ex: verbally, or physically harassing an interest to prove their worth.
6. What are the good aspects of pledging APA? Specific examples?
I believe that Alpha highlights aspects of scholastics, community service, and the strengthening of Black awareness. Ex: Project Alpha is a program dedicated towards educating adolescents in teen pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.
7. What are the bad aspects of pledging APA? Specific examples?
I really can't say that it's nothing related to the fraternity itself. No society is a utopian society; however, problems do not stem from the fraternity itself.
8. How you ever thought of resigning as a member?
No, like marriage, Alpha is a life long commitment. Through thick and thin, one must make the best out of any situation, whether it's dismal or not.
9. Have you ever felt that you were pushed too far, in your pledging process?
No.
10. Are you still an active member, after graduating from college?
I’m still in college, but after I graduate, I plan on being a member
11. What are the differences between pledging during undergraduate studies, and graduate studies?
If anything, the social aspect. Undergraduate members receive a higher amount of social benefits from being in a fraternity, all of which are superficial in all honesty.
12. If you could turn back time, would you pledge all over again?
I would, so I could garnish the feeling of my neophyte show. It was amazing. But other than that, no.
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Anonymous, Alpha Phi Alpha fraternity member #3 :
1. What made you decide to join a fraternity?
-I was looking for people I could trust and who could trust me unconditionally. For the first time in my life, I found black men that didn’t fit or want to fit the stereotype of a black man (ie. constant slang usage, pants so baggy they are falling off your legs). I found black men like me.
2. How did you decide to become a member of APhiA (Alpha Phi Alpha)?
-I researched all the historically black greek fraternities to make sure I knew what they were all about first, and after reading through everyone’s collegiate, graduate and national websites, nobody could touch A Phi A in terms of community service, prominent alphas, and in terms of having a clear goal for the organization in the future.
3. What are some of the requirements of membership?
-GPA 2.5 is the minimum, but many have greater gpa's. -A desire to know more about the organization, its history, purpose, and the current brothers involved. -Application -Essay
4. Do you have any regrets, regarding your membership or pledging process?
-NO
5. What is hazing, and did you ever feel that you were a victim or participant of the act? Please provide examples.
Hazing is a ritualistic test and a task involving harassment, abuse or humiliation used as a way of initiating a person into a gang, club, military organization or other group. I do not feel I was ever a victim of hazing. I do feel that I went through constructive conditioning that was necessary to the process. Those who are not greek will never be able to understand and those that are, will never be able to fully explain. But, I will say, that everything has a purpose and my process was a great learning tool I have taken with me. Not once did I ever feel like I was being abused or humiliated, To this day, I find it hard to walk on grass through a park, when there is a nice sidewalk surrounding the grass, after all, there are no shortcuts in life.
6. What are the good aspects of pledging APhiA? Specific examples?
-NEVER feeling alone -My line brother is my brother, he is apart of me. -Participating in these national service programs, was the first time I felt like I was contributing to society as a whole, no matter how small the contribution was. "A Voteless People is a Hopeless People": Get Registered to Vote today!!! We now see how important it is to vote, and that it truly means something.
7. What are the bad aspects of pledging APhiA? Specific examples?
-Not knowing when its over. Nights can be long "study" sessions. -It was hard to have a really good, flowing, bowel movement for quite some time. Bad aspect, but also one of the things that keeps you laughing...
8. How you ever thought of resigning as a member?
-ABSOLUTELY NOT. I worked too hard to earn my letters.
9. Have you ever felt that you were pushed too far, in your pledging process?
-No. EVERYTHING had meaning, and my DP and ADP made sure of that. -Did anyone ever ask Henry Arthur Callis, Charles Henry Chapman, Eugene Kinckle Jones, and company if they felt they were being tortured too much for being black and walking to class during 1906 in upstate New York at Cornell University? -In the end, "I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul!"
10. Are you still an active member, after graduating from college?
-No. I blame the economy. Also, I just moved to a new city, and need to find the right graduate chapter for me.
11. What are the differences between pledging during undergraduate studies, and graduate studies?
-I don’t know of any pledging when you enter as a graduate. I know you do learn what you need to learn, and you fill out plenty of paperwork...I think I will leave it at that.
12. if you could turn back time, would you pledge all over again?
-I would pledge again because of all I gained from it. I live with no regret. Everything is a learning experience. I would not change a thing. In fact, if I found out that there was no process, I wouldn't be nearly as interested, because I would want to go through what everyone before me went through. No skating here. I truly earned my letters, and may the good lord help the man or woman that ever tries to snatch them off me.
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Mia, Alpha Kappa Alpha sorrority member
1. What made you decide to join a sorrority?
I decided to join a sorority for a number of reasons. One being that I wanted to belong to an outlet/organization that represented good morals, scholastic achievement, community service and a strong sisterhood.
2. How did you decide to become a member of AKA?
Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc. Embodied all of the aspects that I was looking for in a sorority. Many of my female family members were already in the so rority. I felt that this specific sorority had something to offer me and help me develop as a college woman. Alpha Kappa Alpha has a strong history and background of sisterhood that I was seeking as well.
3. What are some of the requirements of membership?
The general requirement for undergraduate membership on the national website is a 2.5 GPA; although the GPA requirements differ from chapter to chapter. For instance, the chapter I was initiated into required a 2.75 GPA. Also you have to be enrolled in a four year college or university or have graduated from college, and you must attend an official rush.
4. Do you have any regrets, regarding your membership or pledging process?
Not at all.
5. What is hazing, and did=2 0you ever feel that you were a victim or participant of the act? Please provide examples.
Hazing is a series of ritualistic tasks that serve no purpose whatsoever. It often involves strenuous physical activities, harassment, humiliation, etc....to be initiated into a group. I have heard of physical hazing, mental hazing and financial hazing. I never felt that I was a victim of any hazing activities.
6. What are the good aspects of pledging AKA? Specific examples?
The term pledging has to be used carefully because people decipher it differently. I pledged to be a loyal and hardworking member for the sorority. But none of this involved hazing.
7. What are the bad aspects of pledging AKA? Specific examples?
I did not encounter any bad aspects of joining the sorority.
8. How you ever thought of resigning as a member?
No! I love the sorority and value my membership.
9. Have you ever felt that you were pushed too far, in your pledging process?
n/a
10. Are you still an active member, after graduating from college?
Yes I am. I just had to transfer my membership and join the chapter in my current city.
11. What are the differences between pledging during undergraduate studies, and graduate studies?
It’s true that it’s very different joining an undergrad chapter vs. a graduate chapter. On college campuses, Greek life is more magnified and sought after therefore joining undergrad is likely the more exciting option for most people due to the mainstream view or Greek life on college campuses. Also I feel that your exposure to your sorority sisters is greater in undergrad. I mean, you have classes with a lot of them, eat lunch on campus with them, study together, and many other activities that go along with college life whereas in the graduate chapter I’ve joined since graduating...I only see those sorority sisters at the monthly meeting and service projects, but not on a daily basis.
12. if you could turn back time, would you pledge all over again?
I would definitely do everything the same as I did the first time around and choose the same sorority, and I wouldn’t change it for anything!
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Thursday, March 19, 2009
MARCH EDITION
EDITOR'S THOUGHTS
March is the month of all things green. Slogans like, “Take Care of Mother Earth”, or “ Protect the Trees” are heard all over the airways, and the television. Personally, it’s starting to become a little overrated. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a big advocate of taking care of the planet that we were left as caretakers of. We should take responsibility for the earth, because it is ours. Although I seriously doubt that people making minimum wage at McDonald’s, are worried or loosing sleep over - paper versus plastic bag options at the grocery store. For that matter, buying organic food or cleaning supplies from Whole Foods Market, versus the cheaper substitutes, is not a hard decision when placed in those shoes. I get annoyed after spending half of my pay check at Jewel’s (grocery of Chicago) , and they can’t even offer you any bags. Now, how am I supposed to get all that stuff to my car, and up 6 floors to my place?
When “poop hits the fans”, you’re only concerned about, “how will this decision affect my pockets, and any of my spare energy?” Can we really afford to save the environment in this economy, and pay bills this month? Do you really want to live in a green house with solar panels, and no AC? Think what you want to, but it’s not easy being green, while you’re still in the red (and your bank account).
Furthermore, the whole green garment philosophy really boggles my mind. And let’s be honest, truly eco-friendly clothing, means buying no new clothes at all. When you take all the energy that goes into laundering and washing into account, you’ve used large quantities of water, energy, and chemicals. Never mind dry- cleaned clothes! Cold washed and line dried methods are really the only way to alleviate the costs to the earth. Producing , constructing, and distributing a line of clothing, is the least bit of your worries. Longevity in fabrics, and button options are important too. Selecting clothing that you can wear for the next 20 years, and still looks as good as the day that you purchased it, is hard to do. Recyclables from thrift stores are an option, but who really wants to wear clothes from 20 years ago?
Looking on the bright side of my Debbie – Downer moment (last 24 lines that you just read), I recently started saving cans and plastic bottles to reuse as part of my art exhibit. My art work turned out beautiful (of course), but the collection of rubbage used in it’s construction, started to smell funny after a few weeks. I even saw a few bugs- yuck.
If you have really enjoyed my articles, please send us your feedback. Please send emails, and all interview propositions to ubbelle@hotmail.com
March is the month of all things green. Slogans like, “Take Care of Mother Earth”, or “ Protect the Trees” are heard all over the airways, and the television. Personally, it’s starting to become a little overrated. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a big advocate of taking care of the planet that we were left as caretakers of. We should take responsibility for the earth, because it is ours. Although I seriously doubt that people making minimum wage at McDonald’s, are worried or loosing sleep over - paper versus plastic bag options at the grocery store. For that matter, buying organic food or cleaning supplies from Whole Foods Market, versus the cheaper substitutes, is not a hard decision when placed in those shoes. I get annoyed after spending half of my pay check at Jewel’s (grocery of Chicago) , and they can’t even offer you any bags. Now, how am I supposed to get all that stuff to my car, and up 6 floors to my place?
When “poop hits the fans”, you’re only concerned about, “how will this decision affect my pockets, and any of my spare energy?” Can we really afford to save the environment in this economy, and pay bills this month? Do you really want to live in a green house with solar panels, and no AC? Think what you want to, but it’s not easy being green, while you’re still in the red (and your bank account).
Furthermore, the whole green garment philosophy really boggles my mind. And let’s be honest, truly eco-friendly clothing, means buying no new clothes at all. When you take all the energy that goes into laundering and washing into account, you’ve used large quantities of water, energy, and chemicals. Never mind dry- cleaned clothes! Cold washed and line dried methods are really the only way to alleviate the costs to the earth. Producing , constructing, and distributing a line of clothing, is the least bit of your worries. Longevity in fabrics, and button options are important too. Selecting clothing that you can wear for the next 20 years, and still looks as good as the day that you purchased it, is hard to do. Recyclables from thrift stores are an option, but who really wants to wear clothes from 20 years ago?
Looking on the bright side of my Debbie – Downer moment (last 24 lines that you just read), I recently started saving cans and plastic bottles to reuse as part of my art exhibit. My art work turned out beautiful (of course), but the collection of rubbage used in it’s construction, started to smell funny after a few weeks. I even saw a few bugs- yuck.
If you have really enjoyed my articles, please send us your feedback. Please send emails, and all interview propositions to ubbelle@hotmail.com
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